Mr. Fix-it

It was a long night; Gilly slept peacefully and I saw to his comfort with some help from Yaron. It was an unusually difficult night; some nights just work out this way. I was unable to function during the day due to intense fatigue; I don’t think I slept a wink all night. Luckily Raquel was here, and so I took to my bed for a couple of hours. Every part of my body was able to sleep, except my mind. I felt as heavy as a boulder, unable to move, but my thoughts refused to allow me any peace. The ‘lie down’ did me some good regardless. I plan to try to lie down at least once every day, and perhaps I will eventually learn to fall asleep.

John, Stacey, Kyle and Justin drove in from the country this afternoon to bring us dinner and good cheer. John managed to solve many of my pressing problems; he fixed my washing machine (MOST important), my living room lamp (important) and my DVD player (of least importance, but still annoying). There’s nothing like having someone around the house that knows how to use tools and is motivated to use them for the greater good. A zillion thanks to my cousin (who I actually consider my youngest brother).

Yaron, Tamara and Max came by for dinner too. What a pleasure for me to have such lively conversation around the dinner table. Gilly ate some of Auntie Ruth scrumptious brisket before the rest of us sat down to eat. He snoozed in his chair as we indulged in Stacey’s delicious lasagna.

He’s tucked in for the night now that everyone has gone home. Tamara helped me place him in bed and prepare him for sleep; he needs to be propped in certain ways and to be creamed, all so as to avoid pressure points and prevent bed sores. I hope to have a lighter care giving load tonight. Perhaps Tamara’s loving touch will make the difference.

Gilly slept deeply all day long. He awoke twice for some food, but ate less than usual. He was lethargic, but managed to respond to each one of his guests regardless.

Tomorrow Cathy, Uncle Butch and Daniel plan to drive in to see us from Ottawa. I’d say the holiday is shaping up. It isn’t easy accepting a winter vacation in the city after spending every other one in my life, pretty much, up in the country. Delightful company makes all the difference. I believe that Gilly senses and enjoys everyone’s presence even though he sleeps though most of the time our friends and family spend with us.